Oh lovely one, my hope is that if you are reading this that you haven’t faced grief yet and hopefully you will resonate with this blog post, to assist you in how you view “wealth”!! If you are reading this facing grief on the daily, then I know you get it! I am sending you Read more
Oh hi there lovely one. It’s scary… the fear and grief and anxiety will take you over. You’ve lost what you cannot replace. Often I am asked why are you so general about all of this versus being specific about loss. Well honestly it is because after losing what I cannot replace my loss isn’t Read more
My grief journey…what a journey. I must admit I didn’t have a large support system I only had a few but today, well proudly, I have a support system!!!! Yes! I can’t express the blessings I have in my support system but that’s not what this blog post is about. Truthfully, this blog post is Read more
Life. Wow, it is so difficult and yet exhilarating and scary because life keeps on changing!! My biggest change I’ve ever faced is dealing with life after loss! That, in fact, is the hardest change that for some reason I continue to face on a daily basis. I remember the change that is also known Read more
Oh, lovely one, in this world of constant excitement over the New Year…New Beginnings… a Fresh Start, yet you’ve lost what you can’t replace. You can’t move on or start fresh, the pain of losing what you can’t hold, you have a hard time breathing much less creating a New Years Resolution so how do you Read more
Well Hello Lovely One: How are you doing?? How are you feeling?? Most importantly, how is your grief going? Yup, I did I just asked how your grieving is going… Why? You may wonder…Well, the truth is unless you grieve- unless you choose to process your grief and take care of what you need to take Read more
Well, lovely one another year is in the books and, to be honest, I’m floored. This year has been a big one for me, both personally and professionally. First the personal… As you may already know, my grief comes everywhere with me and well this can make it very difficult to find a life worth Read more
It was Christmas 2012. It was my second Christmas without Chloe, it was my third Christmas without my dad and my first Christmas without my mom. I was heartbroken and I felt so so alone. I knew that the holidays amplified all of it! It made me scared and I felt so very alone. I Read more
Oh my, oh my the guilt I don’t discuss this much, there many sides of guilt. I struggle with all those sides. Very different in each loss I’ve experienced. When my dad passed away, I felt so guilty to keep going and I felt guilty of all that I hadn’t done (and I don’t really Read more
You may be thinking – what do you mean there are choices in grief? There is no choice….. There is no choice of losing what you cannot replace.. absolutely. But in my core beliefs about loss and grief, grief is the reaction to loss. Grief is the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual reaction when you’ve lost Read more
