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by After Chloe on 01.11.2019 - 12:57 PM
Posted in Child loss, Divorce, Grief, infant loss, life after loss, Loss, Love, parent loss, pregnancy loss, self-awareness

What October brings. Before I get into October, I feel it necessary to write about 2019. What a year! It’s not incredibly bad or good but more so it has been a year of unimaginable growth!That is correct, I never believed that I could grow at the rate and pace that I have. I thought that if I don’t face all that I want and my desire to serve others- it will just go away but in fact, Read more

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by After Chloe on 20.05.2019 - 06:09 PM
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This is the hardest blog post I’ve ever written. Not because of it being about Abortion, but because of the shame and embarrassment that I’ve carried for well over 20 years. So, here it goes: I was about to turn 19 years old and what started out as one of the best Summers of my Read more

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Showing Up For Grief

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by After Chloe on 23.05.2018 - 06:00 AM
Posted in Grief

Often we believe that it’s some grand process when you show up for grief. That you decide today that you will be able to somehow grieve and then that’s it, it’s over. No longer will you have to continue grieving and the challenges of facing that pain. That uncertainty.  Instead, we must learn that the Read more

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Being a Member of the Grief Society

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by After Chloe on 16.05.2018 - 06:10 AM
Posted in Grief, Loss

We tend to connect grief and death as one but, honestly, grief is connected to loss – the actual part of losing what isn’t replaceable. Loss is unimaginable and sometimes we can’t move through it- or we tend to believe that we “can get over it”. Here’s what the grief society is… It is when you Read more

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Is Grief my New Normal?

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by After Chloe on 02.05.2018 - 06:00 AM
Posted in Grief, life after loss, Loss

As I thought of the title of this blog post, I struggled with what to call this awkward place of knowing life as you’ve known it, is over – yet you may not recognize what is or how to even adapt to this. Why is my grief so uncomfortable? Because grief is hard.  Loss and Read more

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10 Practices for Self-Care and Self-Compassion

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by After Chloe on 25.04.2018 - 06:00 AM
Posted in Self-Care

When I began my grief journey I didn’t really even understand what self-care was, much less to practice self-compassion in order to commit to self-care … I quickly realized that I had no idea how to care for myself while having fallen apart. I also realized that I was my own worst enemy. I treated Read more

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The Journey of Losing My Baby

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by After Chloe on 17.04.2018 - 06:00 AM
Posted in life after loss, Loss

Oh my – well obviously the name of my “brand” is After Chloe and well for you that may be wondering – who is Chloe? She’s my child. She was born on December 29, 2010, and she died on February 22, 2011. There are more nevers than memories…We never danced together – yet while she Read more

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